🎯 Key Takeaways

• ✓ Internal transfers aren't always possible—be prepared for an "inorganic switchover" when returning to India
• ✓ Leadership roles exist in India for senior professionals willing to search, switch, and stay confident
• ✓ Cultural factors (motivation, innovation buffer, psychological safety) matter more than pay scales for long-term satisfaction
• ✓ The younger the child (under 5), the smoother the school transition—COVID lockdowns actually created a buffer
• ✓ India's domestic help availability is "liberating" but habit-forming—be aware of the dependency it creates
• ✓ Extended family networks in India far exceed social support available abroad

His story isn't about escaping the West or romanticizing India—it's about answering a call when family needed him most, making hard choices about career continuity, and discovering that homecoming means navigating contrasts: liberating household help versus traffic chaos, extended family warmth versus overwhelming school options, and the challenge of helping a three-year-old transition from Scandinavian independence to Indian discipline.

More than a year into his return to Hyderabad, Prasad offers one of the most practical blueprints for NRIs considering the leap—especially those in senior roles without internal transfer options. For professionals considering a similar move, understanding common NRI mistakes that cost lakhs when returning to India can help you avoid costly pitfalls. You'll also want to review the hidden essentials checklist for returning to India before making your move.

1️⃣ The Foundation — A Decade in Energy Trading & Risk Management

"Energy is very localized when it comes to geopolitics and market structure. My ambition has always been to understand the nuances of different markets."

Prasad works in a senior leadership role at a consulting firm specializing in energy trading and risk management—a niche within financial services that sits at the intersection of commodity markets, price discovery, and volatility management.

His career wasn't just about technical skills—it was about absorbing localized market knowledge, culture, and the aspects of what people contribute in each region. That drive kept him moving across continents, soaking up empirical knowledge he could eventually bring back to India. According to the Wikipedia article on energy trading, this sector involves the buying and selling of energy commodities including electricity, natural gas, and oil—a field that requires deep understanding of both local regulations and global market dynamics.

2️⃣ The Journey — Denmark, Malaysia, Singapore, and the U.S.

"The majority of my time was in Denmark (EU), followed by Malaysia with exposure to Singapore, and finally the U.S.—in decreasing order of years."

Prasad spent the bulk of his eight years abroad in Denmark, where he transitioned from independent consulting (contracting in Southeast Asia) to a full-time employee role at a reputable consulting firm. He then spent significant time in Malaysia, with overlapping exposure to Singapore's financial markets, before concluding his international stint in the United States.

"Some geographies give you room for innovation—20% of your day to think about what you can do better. Others want you to stick to the runbook because people invested time and money to build it."

3️⃣ The Trigger — A Family Accident and the Broadest Shoulder

"There's an old saying: the broadest shoulder carries the most weight. There was a need for me to step up."

The decision to return wasn't purely professional—it was catalyzed by a family accident in December that fundamentally shifted priorities. Someone had to be there, and Prasad was that person.

"It would be a bit of hyperbole to ask them to start a department just for me. I knew for a fact I was looking at a runway which was very short-lived."

He couldn't work remotely from India indefinitely, so he made a calculated decision: leave his job, switch companies, and accept the uncertainty of a full job search while relocating. It was an inorganic transition—no safety net, no guaranteed landing.

"I had to switch gears into a different job search, understand what opportunities fit my ambition. It was a complete inorganic switchover."

This experience mirrors what many NRI professionals face when returning to India—the need to rebuild networks and prove value in a new market. If you're weighing a similar decision, the decision-making framework for relocating to India can help you think through the process systematically.

4️⃣ The Big Question — Can I Continue My Leadership Journey in India?

"I was on a leadership role in my previous assignments. The question was: what does it mean when I come to India? Can I continue that journey? I'm very happy and grateful that I am able to."

This wasn't about survival—Prasad had built a senior leadership identity abroad, and he refused to compromise it. The fear many returnees face—taking a step down, losing influence, or being sidelined—was real for him too.

"India has truly gone global. There's tremendous potential. What I assess is the empirical knowledge which some of us coming back can value-add to the cauldron of culture we're building in Indian leadership."

His success in securing a leadership role in India validated his decision—and proved that senior professionals can maintain trajectory if they're willing to search, switch, and stay confident. For those considering early retirement or financial independence after returning, explore FIRE strategies for NRIs returning to India.

5️⃣ Family Gains — Speed Dial, Weekend Plans & Domestic Travel

"The number of people you have on speed dial keeps going up and up. That's a stark difference from Europe, where we had only a limited number of good friends."

On the personal front, the family is much happier. The tight-knit network of extended family in India means weekend plans are limitless—birthdays, festivals, spontaneous gatherings.

"The extension of whom you can meet every weekend—the possibilities are limitless."

6️⃣ Cultural Contrasts — Motivation, Innovation & Psychological Safety

"If I had to summarize my journey across countries, it comes down to balance."

Prasad identifies three core parameters that differ dramatically across geographies:

"I'm not talking about pay scales and material comfort—those are always there. I'm talking about what drives people with passion, the stickability factor beyond materialistic comfort."

Understanding these cultural nuances is essential for a smooth transition. The concept of psychological safety in the workplace—the belief that you won't be punished for speaking up—varies significantly across cultures and directly impacts job satisfaction.

7️⃣ Life in India — Housing, Labor, and the Liberation of Domestic Help

"India has become such that finding rental accommodation in most metropolitan cities is not that hard anymore."

Housing: Flexibility Over Perfection

Unlike Europe—where move-in and move-out reports document every scratch, every wall mark, and every floor scuff with numeric deductions—India offers flexibility.

"In Europe, you're living in a utopian state of house and you have to find another utopian state. That transition is very stressful."

In India, abundant labor means damage can be fixed easily—spilled coffee, hot pan marks, kids drawing on walls—all manageable.

"The availability of labor is pretty high. Even if things break, it can still be fixed very easily. That was the first level of comfort we felt."

Domestic Help: A Game-Changer

But Prasad is also self-aware about the trade-off:

"Once you get used to this level of comfort, moving back abroad would require you to become independent again. These features don't apply to other countries."

8️⃣ Traffic & Transportation — From Trains to Cars

"Traffic is a stark contrast coming from countries where public transport has been the way to go—especially on the European side with very effective public transportation."

In Scandinavia, Prasad relied on trains, buses, and bikes. In India, driving is non-negotiable—most metropolitan cities are car-dependent.

"For people coming from the U.S., it might be just a bit normal. But from people coming from Scandinavia or Europe, it might be a nuance they have to take care of—because cars are used for almost everything here."

This adjustment was one of the starkest lifestyle contrasts for his family.

9️⃣ Privacy & Apartments — Avoiding Nosy Neighbors

"Most high-end apartments have people who are limited in social circles—everybody minds their own business. That gave us comfort."

Prasad and his wife consciously chose apartments where privacy is respected. They wanted distance from "nosy neighbors" who might walk in uninvited or pry into daily routines.

"Think about parachuting into a world where you have neighbors walking into your house every day. I cannot take that clearly. Finding the right apartment helped relieve anxiety."

This strategic choice helped them settle without the social overwhelm that some returnees experience.

🔟 Schooling — 15 Curriculums Like a Restaurant Menu

"The number of schools sprouting day-on-day in every major city is skyrocketing. The spectrum of curriculums—it's like opening up a brochure with 15 different curriculums, like going into a restaurant and looking at 15 flavors of food."

The sheer volume of schooling options was overwhelming. CBSE, ICSE, IB, IGCSE, Cambridge, Montessori, Waldorf—each with its own philosophy, structure, and outcomes.

1️⃣1️⃣ A 3–4-Year-Old's Brave Transition — From Scandinavia to India

"My little one was almost three to four years old when we moved back from Denmark. I feel the smaller the kid, the easier it is to get accommodated."

COVID as an Accidental Cushion

The timing worked in their favor. Because of COVID-19, social engagement had already decreased globally—kids weren't in school, friends were limited to family bubbles.

"There was a downward slope of engagement because people didn't go to school. Then when the world opened up, that's when we had to travel back. For me, it was like a smooth transition."

The family built excitement through video calls, grandparents calling him, uncles and aunts hyping the move.

"We said, 'Hey, you're going to meet your grandparents, your uncles and aunts.' There was good excitement in his eyes when he had to come back."

The First Few Weeks: Overwhelming Culture Shock

"All that excitement went fine—until he hit India. The overwhelming part was the first couple of weeks joining school."

The contrast was stark:

"For him, 8 a.m. in the morning is all about oats and strawberries and berries, then morning carol classes—not a long line, a whistle, and PT."

A Month to Acclimatize

"There was at least a month of acclimatization before he could get comfortable with the fact that 8 a.m. means everybody's going to stand in a long line, somebody's going to blow a whistle, and everybody's going to do PT."

Prasad credits his son's bravery:

"We had to psychologically make him accommodated. He was a brave one—he took it well. All the credits go to him. I think he was able to take it well."

1️⃣2️⃣ COVID's Silver Lining — Course-Correcting Social Development

"For kids under five who have been in COVID times—where there were restrictions in social behavior, speech, and behavioral side of it as a product of circumstances—coming back to India could severely course-correct that world."

Extended family gatherings, cousins, festivals, spontaneous visits—all contributed to a rich social immersion that countered the isolation COVID had imposed.

"It can completely counter-negate some of those observations you find in other countries."

1️⃣3️⃣ Advice for NRIs Considering the Return

1️⃣4️⃣ India's Evolution — "Truly Gone Global"

"India has truly gone global. There is tremendous potential and opportunities in India."

Prasad believes that returning NRIs bring something invaluable: empirical knowledge from global markets.

"What we assess is the empirical knowledge which some of us who have been on different geographies can come back and value-add to the cauldron of culture we're building internally in India."

He sees India not as a step backward, but as a place where global experience meets domestic scale—a unique combination for leadership and innovation.

✍️ Editorial Summary

Prasad's journey is a masterclass in navigating uncertainty with clarity. He didn't have an internal transfer. He didn't have a guaranteed job. He left his leadership role abroad and rebuilt from scratch—driven by family need and professional conviction. More than a year into his return to Hyderabad, he's proven that senior professionals can maintain trajectory in India if they're willing to search, switch, and stay confident.

His son's adjustment to Indian schools, the shift from European public transport to car-dependent metros, and the leap into a new job all required flexibility and grit. But the rewards—extended family, domestic exploration, leadership continuity, and the liberation of household help—have made the homecoming worth it.

For NRIs weighing the same decision, Prasad's story is proof that the transition, while challenging, is entirely navigable with the right mindset, support, and a willingness to embrace contrast.

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